Mayhaps it is. It becomes easier to relax once one finds allies with whom they can share good and bad times with, to know that someone has thy back.

[ to just go with things together, knowing you're not the only one dealing with things... for don, it puts her mind in a different space where she can help others rather than think about herself, and be endlessly surprised when someone pokes their nose into her business instead -- or by herself, when she shares something relating to another. ]

Whilst thee may never become as "easygoing" as I seem, there is no reason to look over thy shoulder every moment of the day. The food is not poisoned and the residences without traps. The water clean, the days passing. It is more or less only once a new area has been able to be traversed that we are on a higher alert, for that has been our main caution thus far.

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But do not feel like thee cannot enjoy the fair coming up for I am also most excited for it even if it may be a trap or cause me some harm because I have never been to one and I am eager to see what is in store!!!!!!

[ that is all in one breath thanks for asking ]