You'd do better to learn how to curb your bad habit of dropping information on people without intending to explain it or being able to without trekking into areas you shouldn't be exposing outside of your employment.

( Just Saying. even to people who aren't from the city, even to people she thinks she can trust... )

The more people you tell, the more likely it is to get around to someone who does understand what you're on about. Get it?