"You said you'd always wanted a white wedding?" He's not going to reopen that hole that he dug earlier so he'll just leave it at that. Look, he's even being polite enough not to mention that older brother she so casually mentioned.

"Do you-- even want a wedding? Or something... romantic and sweet at least. Someone you can spend your life with, that you only argue with sometimes. Remembers your birthdays and buys you nice things and travels with you. That's nice innit?"