[ i go back once a year to see my kitty wife and then i leave that's my involvement and i'm keeping it that way ]

Oh, I do agree! On all points, my friend! [ he's upgraded to friend now, is he. ] How else is one to know if they like something or not if they do not at least try? Ah, and then it may lead to regret should the chance never arise again...

[ and regret is such a terrible thing. don stares up at the sky, then turns to look at midnight. ]

I would rather regret having tried something than not at all, at least.

[ it's not just about a fun activity, or a good, or anything of the sort, though. is it. ]